Follies Update

I went for an ultrasound and b/w this morning and I am thankful that things seem to be progressing well. I have 5 follicles that are 1.3-1.4 cm in size, 4 on my left and 1 on my right. I didn't ask about my E2 level. That was a concern for me last cycle because my E2 level skyrocketed and I was at risk for OHSS. I almost don't care this cycle about too many follies/high E2. I feel like throwing caution to the wind because if I don't, Mr. IVF may just come bursting through our door. And we are not ready to welcome him into our lives. So I'm glad that I'm responding well to meds this month. Those follies are definitely growing in there - I am bloated beyond belief and I can definitely feel a heaviness in my ovaries. So nice to actually feel something going on in there. Rather than the barren emptiness I feel when I am between cycles. Before I started fertility treatment and before I even knew that anything was wrong with me, I used to joke that my uterus was like a desert. I could practically hear the swoosh of the wind and see the tumbleweed roll along its emptiness. Looking back, I guess I always had a gut feeling I would have fertility issues.

Anywho, things are actually happening inside of me now and I shall get back to sending my follicles positive vibes.

Back in Business

So I finally got my period last Friday. Yayy! I went in for b/w and ultrasound on Sunday and I have one cyst on my right side but the doctor said it was nothing to worry about. So I have begun Gonal-F at 112.5 and hopefully this will be the magical dose to give me the right amount of follies. I go in for CD7 ultrasound and b/w tomorrow so fingers crossed things are progressing nicely.

I get the feeling my doctor wants us to jump on the ivf train pretty soon. He said, and I quote: "So we're going to try this one more time, right?" I didn't really know how to respond to that. Did he mean "one more time" because hopefully we will get pregnant this cycle or did he mean "one more time" because we are going straight to ivf if this doesn't work? I don't know. I just muffled an "uh-huh" and left it at that. Nevertheless, I shall try not to get ahead of myself and psyche myself out. I resolve to be as positive and optimistic this cycle as I can possibly be. Let those zen acupuncture feelings carry me away!

BFN, Let's Try Again

So I went in for a pregnancy test on Sunday. I knew it was going to be negative because: 1) I did not ovulate and 2..... well, 'did not ovulate' is all the confirmation needed, I guess. But even though I knew it was going to be negative, the nurse's voice on my answering machine actually telling me it was NE-GA-TIVE (yes, she pronounced it that slowly and clearly, like 3 little punches in the gut) was still disheartening. So now I am taking Provera to bring my period on so that we can get this show on the road. Today is my 3rd day of Provera-popping and I need to take it daily until Sunday. From there, I have to wait another 3-7 days for my period to start. Ugh. I hate all this waiting. Especially now that I am on summer holidays and have all the time in the world to live at the fertility clinic.

But as I wait for that period, I am continuing my acupuncture sessions and three times a day herbs. I don't know if the acupuncture is helping me fertility-wise (I have a gut feeling it is helping a little bit) but I am feeling better than I have in a long time. I feel content and happy and energized. And thus, much more equipped to deal with everything. Yes, it is burning a hole in my cheque book, but for now I feel that it is worth it. Needless to say, my acupuncturist didn't seem too pleased when I told her that I started taking Provera. Here she is trying to regulate my cycle using a natural and holistic approach and there I go running to the nearest pharmacy for Western medicine's quick fix. But I think she was okay with it once I told her that I did not ovulate and will likely not get my period on my own.

Well anyway, that's my story right now.

Patiently twiddling my thumbs and serving as a peaceful pincushion until AF arrives.

In The Presence of a Pregnancy

Today I saw a friend of mine who I haven't seen and have barely spoken to in 6 months. I needed space from her (and others) back in January when I had, yet again, failed to become pregnant for what felt like the bazillionth time. I had reached rock bottom. I was crying constantly. In my bed. In the car. In the shower. As I got dressed for work. In the middle of work meetings in front of my principal. Not a pretty time in my life. In the midst of this intense heartache and helplessness, I found out that my friend was pregnant. For the second time. Since I started trying for my first. And most likely by one lucky quickie whilst their baby slept in the next room. Not the news I needed or wanted to hear. So I told her I needed space from everyone. Just to deal with things on my own without the pressure and paranoia of discovering another pregnancy from amongst my apparently very fertile friends and family.

Well, time wore on and I patched myself up emotionally. I could've talked and seen her way sooner but the longer I waited, the more difficult and awkward it became to give her a call. And the bigger her belly became. But finally today, we found the time to see each other. Along with her 19-month old son and her 7-months along protruding belly. I won't lie, It was definitely awkward and uncomfortable at times. What do you talk about with that giant elephant in the room? And me trying to avoid eye-to-navel contact with her pregnant stomach?

But we managed. Talked a bit about everything else besides the obvious. Even managed to have dinner with her family and my husband and I. Despite the moments of discomfort, I'm glad I saw her. It eased the guilt that was growing in me. And it showed me that I am much stronger than I think.

Dum Da Dum...

^^^ That's me rapping my fingers on the table in a bored and impatient fashion. (Well, not me really, that is obviously a man's hand, but you get what I mean). I hate being stuck in this infertility limbo. I need to wait until Sunday before going in for another beta. It's not a 2ww... that would be much more exciting. It's just no ovulation, no period, no nada, but still have to wait the requisite amount of days before verifying the non-pregnancy state that I most certainly am in, and artificially starting up my next cycle. Ugh.

On another related note, I have the tiniest inkling that my period might come on it's own. I don't know. Maybe it's because I've been hovered over the computer for the last 3 hours. Or because I ate a very late lunch and am still hungry. Or because I've been holding in my pee. But nevertheless, I swear I feel a little crampy pain in my uterus. I have been a little bitchy towards the annoying people on T.V. lately. But I haven't had my requisite pms sugar and salt craving yet. If Aunt Flow does decide to grace me with her presence within the next few days it will be a bloody miracle. Heh. Get it? Bloody, miracle? Anyways, as those of you with PCOS know, getting a period when you want to get your period is a cause for celebration. Could my hormonal system be turning into some semblance of normal?

Hmm. If I do get my period, I swear, I could be the poster child for acupuncture. Ever since I started acupuncture a few months ago, I have gotten my period each month. Maybe not exactly on time, but I've still gotten t it. Oooooh. I'm getting excited at this exciting new revelation! Let me break it down:

First cycle with acupuncture + Gonal-F and IUI - ovulated early (CD 12, I think?) 1 mature follicle all by myself (i.e. without the use of the HCG trigger), then got AF 2 weeks later;
Second cycle with acupuncture + Gonal-F and IUI - upped dosage of Gonal-F so developed over 7 mature follicles and E2 shot way up high. Cancelled cycle on Day 13. Got AF on CD 18. RE told to 'ignore' this period --> may just be due to fact that stopped meds all of a sudden.

Now, CD 29 and am starting to feel crampy.

Please! Period, come!

My Infertility Stats

I guess I should give a background of my journey thus far. I've never typed this out in black and white, so here goes nothing:

Age:
Me - 30 years old
DH - 30 years old

Diagnosed with:
Me - PCOS
DH - nothing (however, I think his sperm count is on the lower end of normal )

TTC since:
Naturally - 1 year
WIth medical intervention - 2 years
So a total of 3 years (in case you couldn't add 1+2 haha!)

Interventions tried so far:
Clomid - 6 cycles (I think?)
IUI with Gonal-F - 5 cycles
Acupuncture - 1 cycle
Acupuncture + herbs - 2 cycles

Tests/Procedures done:
Sono - ouch!
HSG - triple ouch! The doctor was not successful with this --> although the catheter went through my cervix, the dye kept rushing out and down my legs
Laporoscopy - clean --> everything found to be in normal, tip-top shape

Where I stand:
According to the doctors, I respond well to the meds. Perhaps too well -- last cycle I had at least 7 mature follicles and an E2 level of above 11,000. Difficult decision, but cancelled cycle due to high chance of OHSS and multiple fetuses. Before that, have had 1-2 mature follicles per cycle but NO pregnancies. Don't really know what's up. Besides the PCOS, everything else seems fine and I respond to meds. Not ready to try IVF quite yet.

Currently:
I am waiting out this cancelled cycle. Going for a beta test on Sunday. If it's negative (which it will be - did not ovulate on my own) will start Provera and begin another cycle of IUI and Gonal-F, this time on a dose of 112.5

So that's it in a nutshell. Left out the hundreds of blood tests and vaginal probe ultrasounds. Not pleasant but an unfortunate fact of life these days.

Where To Begin...

My TTC journey has been inspiring me to do a lot of things lately. Write in a journal. Drastically increase my fruits and veggies intake. Do pilates, Exercise. Run. And now... blog. I'm sure that anyone going through the TTC journey can attest to the same feelings I feel right now. One of them being the strong NEED to talk to and tell others about this most horrifying time in my life, but yet finding absolutely no one that can really listen. At least listen the way I want and need them to listen - with complete understanding and empathy for what I am going through. I find it ironic that I find more solace in strangers going through the same thing as I, and not the loved ones that supposedly know and love me inside out. I know that my family and friends (the few I have left) don't know how to talk to me. They walk on eggshells around me. Not knowing what bit of information or question might be too sensitive for my infertile mind and body. Because of this, I am slowly losing dear friends and drifting away from my family. Particularly the friends and family that have recently become pregnant with no outside help or motivation whatsoever. Pregnant by chance. Pregnant by that one romp in the sack. But I digress...

So I am here starting up this blog. I will be as candid here as I can be. I'll try not to sound as pitiful as I just did in the above paragraph. This is NOT going to be a pity party! Well, if you're reading this, thanks for reading. Welcome!